I think as Stepmom's, we need to wear a shirt that says something like this, "I Love Being A StepMom, or I'm The StepMom and Proud Of It!"
Yes, it is a tough role, but so is being a parent to your biological children.
I think if we start embracing our role and stop taking offense to things that are out of our control or jurisdiction, we may find joy as a stepmom.
Don't get me wrong step parenting is hard. I get so frustrated because I feel my voice doesn't carry as much weight and I feel the need to defend myself when I do not need to.
There is a scripture in the bible about being quiet, knowing when to speak, and when to be silent.
...a time to keep silent, and a time to speak;
Ecclesiastes 3:7
I often wonder what the conversations Mary and Joseph had regarding Jesus. Joseph had to accept Jesus as his earthly son, even though he was his stepdad.
My dear brothers and sisters, take note of this;
Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to
speak and slow to become angry.
James 1:19
When faced with challenges that seem like they will never end, remind yourself of why you committed yourself to this family. For me, I fell in love with my husband, his commitment to God, his sexiness, and the love he had for his children. Also, my desire to be a Godly wife and a mom. The day my husband proposed not only did I say yes to him, but I also said yes to his two young kids!
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What is your Why?
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